Monday, December 29

Dare I take my toddler to see the orchestra?

Would she sit still? Would she have to go potty in the middle of a piece? These were some of the concerns I had about taking my daughter, 3 1/2, to a concert of the Philadelphia Orchestra - an institution that commands respect around the world. One might think it a waste of money and a seat to allow one's toddler to be in such an audience. But this was a free Community Holiday Concert at Martin Luther King high school!

My own teenage years were rendered melodious by my activity with the high school orchestra, and the lasting gift is my enjoyment of orchestral music: being able to hear the melody; distinguishing the sound of, for example, the oboe from the clarinet; having insights into the cultural and historical contexts in which the pieces were written. I'll never forget the first time I sat in the audience, at the age of 16, to hear Beethoven's 6th symphony. My daughter should also have this in her life,I believe.

The etiquette at orchestral concerts is much the same as it is at the theater, opera, and ballet; it is not very welcoming to toddlers, who by their neurological makeup have trouble controlling their impulses and urges. In fact, orchestral concerts require more restraint from their audience than those other arts. For instance, a high-reaching aria at the opera or skillfully executed move at the ballet elicits spontaneous cheers and applause from the audience. On the other hand, when one is seated with a view of the conductor's tuxedo tails, one dare not show one's approval or enthusiasm while the conductor's baton is raised. The moments between movements are to be silent.

The concert at Martin Luther King High School is part of the Orchestra's way of getting heard and seen by people who normally do not make it down to the Kimmel Center. The musicians' services were donated for this evening! And they were friendly and warm, with the conductor talking to the audience; in some instances, the audience talked right back to show their appreciation. From the baby sitting behind us in her grandmother's lap to the older women cheering on the soloist, the atmosphere was a very positive one for my daughter's first exposure to what is more often a stiff, cordial affair.

I do not recommend bringing young children to see the Philadelphia Orchestra during their regular season at the Kimmel Center. However, the Orchestra offers great opportunities to share this treasure with our young children. The first of these comes in the form of Free Neighborhood Concerts, which have taken place in Chestnut Hill, Upper Darby, North Philadelphia, West Philadelphia, Radnor, South Philadelphia, Camden, Montgomery County, and City Hall in Center City Philadelphia.  
The 2009 Free Neighborhood Concert Series will be announced this spring. But if you would like to share this sooner, there will be another free concert, a Martin Luther King, Jr., Tribute Concert, o
n Monday, January 19, 2009, at 7 pm at the high school that shares his name. Tickets are free and will be available online at the Orchestra's website or through State Rep. Dwight Evans' office starting January 5.

A second opportunity is the Orchestra's Sound All Around concerts for ages 3-5. These take place in smaller rooms at the Kimmel and also at the Baldwin School in Bryn Mawr, and children and their caregivers sit on the floor. The standards of etiquette are ones that toddlers and preschoolers can aspire to. There will be two of these concerts offered in January and three in March as well as others in April and May, and the general admission tickets cost $8.50 - same as a movie!

Here's to a musical year for you and your children!

Thursday, December 25

Children's Matinee Series at the Hiway Theatre


The Hiway Theatre in Jenkintown has a great Children's Matinee series held on school holidays. Kids are $5.00 and accompanying adults are FREE!

The theater is a great non-profit, member-supported venue that is over 90 years old. Comfy seats (including a love seat!), real butter on the popcorn, super friendly staff - a great movie experience all around!


Located on Old York Rd., they have a comprehensive parking map on their website.

During winter break, they are showing two movies:



A Christmas Story
Monday, December 29th, 2:30 pm
Rated PG, 93 minutes


Fly Me to the Moon
Wednesday, Dec. 31st, 2:30 pm
Rated G, 84 minutes
3-D glasses provided by Hiway!
See Charline's review here.

If you're a planner like I am, you can also mark your calendar for the next three Children's Matinee Dates: Jan. 19, Feb. 16, & Mar. 18

Tuesday, December 16

Gymfoolery: New Toddler Class at Philadelphia School of Circus Arts

When my daughter took the Circus Tots Class last winter, my then not-quite-two year old would sit in his stroller and watch. All he wanted to do was be out there - balancing peacock feathers, jumping and tumbling on the mats, throwing scarves up in the air and trying to catch them (not to mention climbing the rope!). At the time I thought, "Wouldn't it be cool to have a parent-child circus class for him?"

It's Here! The Philadelphia School of Circus Arts has just announced a new class for toddlers age 18 months - 3 years old.

The class is called Gymfoolery and introduces the basics of gymnastics and movement in the circus arts studio. Classes begin with circle time rhymes and end with parachute play with lots of time on the colorful shape mats in between.

The 45 minute class is offered Tuesday or Thursday mornings and runs for 8 weeks.

The winter session (starts January 4th) schedule is up here and lists not only the Gymfoolery class but also classes for kids of all ages and adults of all skill levels. Take a look!

Tuesday, December 9

Let's Party: Wyndmoor Hose Co., No. 1

One common question from parents is "Where is a good, not-too-expensive place where I can hold my child's birthday party?"

Here's a suggestion that not too many people know about: The Wyndmoor Hose Co., No. 1 - A fire station on E. Willow Grove Ave., just East of Chestnut Hill.

For $100 (!), you get a room all to yourselves (I believe it's actually the firefighters' lounge, but it works - with a pass through window to the kitchen), a short lesson on fire safety, and a ride on a fire truck (weather permitting).


The best part for those of you wondering how you're going to cram all of your child's friends into your little row house is that for that $100, the number of kids is unlimited - you pay the same price for 5 kids or 35.

Families provide their own food and any extras they desire (games, activities, etc.)

Their website's Birthday Parties link is not currently working, but you can reach the station at 215-233-2808 or e-mail them at info@wyndmoorfireco.com.

One of the really nice things about holding a party at the Wyndmoor Hose Co. station is that the $100 fee helps support the 100% volunteer fire department, incorporating a little community service into the day.

And did I mention that you get to ride on a fire truck?!?!!

Saturday, December 6

GAP News: Updated Calendar

Just wanted to direct you to our calendar, down and to the right!  I have added a load of great events for this weekend and next.  Make sure to check it out before you head out this weekend!